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By Comfort Mussa Ask any lady in Cameroon the question — What is the best gift a woman can give her husband on their wedding Romantic honeymoon stories While there is serious lack of relevant information about the sexuality of Cameroonian women, we have abundant information on how to prepare and present ourselves to our men. Of course there is joy in giving. But how prepared are we to receive, what do we expect to receive? We asked our readers this question and solicited their stories about their first time as a married couple and what it was really like for them.

Their stories run the gamut from absolutely amazing to downright disappointing. Our first story is from Precious Meshi. This was followed by a mixture of applause and screams from the audience. I eagerly waited for the sensual work that had begun to be brought to completion. For the remaining part of the wedding, I wondered what our first would be like. I was expectant and turned my little brain into a questionnaire.

With a smile that spoke volumes she said. Make sure you are sweet in bed. The upscale interior decor was refreshing to the eyes. Various works of art garnished the walls around us. It was a pleasant sight. The eyes of a brown-skinned receptionist at the welcome desk greeted us. As we negotiated for a room, I could only think of the three letter word that makes the world go round. The red sheets on the bed spoke the language of love.

It was a calm and convenient cubicle. It seemed like the perfect place for a romantic adventure. I knew Mr N. I knew he will then insert it somewhere between my legs. I knew, as a pioneer, it will hurt a little but the pleasure will far surpass the pain. Little did they know that we had not consummated the marriage. I was totally disappointed in myself. What was I missing? We kept trying for the next one week with the same. Then Mr. N had to leave for work. He worked as a Marine Electrical Engineer in Equatorial Guinea and was going to be away for two long months.

The level of disappointment in myself grew. It was a mixture of confusion, uncertainty and doubt. After examining my lady parts, I concluded that there was no way a thing that big was going to go through and Romantic honeymoon stories there. I also thought I had been bewitched by some ill-meaning family member. Thoughts were running through my mind like waves in a torrent. The over one week of trying to eat the fruit of marital goodness seemed like a wild-goose chase. The only I had were soreness, I wondered why a thing that novels, movies and friends said was so good had turned out so gruesome.

My father? He never went near that topic.

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Not even in a joke. The reaction from the class was enough to make a coy lady quickly digress to something else. Yet, among the jeers and boos she pressed on. It was a pretty rough ride for the teacher, dealing with curious teenagers but she pulled through.

My other form of sexual education was in the church where I was taught that godly principles required that I remained untouched until my wedding night. It was said that the greatest gift I could ever give my husband on our wedding night was my virginity. But the gift I had kept as strictly instructed refused to be unraveled. Our various attempts at penetration failed. It was a night void of coitus. It took another two months before our breakthrough came in a moment of pleasure mixed with pain. I was glad that the spell was broken. It did not however stop me from wondering if my case was anomalous.

Some months later, I had a chit-chat with a friend who shared a similar experience. She and her husband -to -be tried to unlock the gate to her womanhood but kept hitting the wall. When I Romantic honeymoon stories her my experience, we laughed together. I understand that a lot of parents, pastors and role models in the society refrain from talking to young people about sex because they do not want to stir the wrong emotions. But there are age appropriate discussions that should take place. What you will tell a 3 year old, may not be what you will tell a 13 year old or even a 30 year old.

But a 30 year old needs to know much more than that. As a young Christian girl, I wish I had been taught that sex is a wonderful thing created by God. I wish I had known more about the details and nature of sexuality. When fear comes, it Romantic honeymoon stories women from having positive sexual experiences. So many very interesting subjects have been highlighted. Hmmm…best gift for your husband,Virginity,Anxiety,church and Society,rules e. You are right Linda,we hardly discuss such issues openly and personally. A wonderful piece, I must say.

Take it or leave it men dream of marrying virgins, but how many of them are ready to wait till marriage. That puts alot of pressure on young girls aspiring for marriage nowadays. All the same, I advocate for sex education, and most of the sex education mature girls get is from their peers which is out of their own experiences and not reliable at all.

Thank you Olivette. Hope we will grow to teach our daughters the things we wish our moms taught us. Oh…did the story just end? Alot of things we ignores in the past begin to hunt us in the future…Knowledge is the key Hosea Hi ladies, its a lovely piece indeed. I have mixed reactions towards this. What they eventually learn is picked up from peers or the experiences of older siblings which may not necessarily be the right picture. Also in the past the focus seemed to be on the girl preparing for the man and she having to be a virgin.

What they all seemed to miss is that, the men were also virgins and quite inexperienced too. With those of us who have kids, we have to make sure we are friends with our children and then parents later. This encourages children to freely express their minds about almost anything with their parents. That was my experience with my parents.

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As I said earlier, majority of girls these days lose their Romantic honeymoon stories way before marraige so should we be preparing our daughters minds differently now? Hmmm,interesting read. Precious thanks for being this vulnerable,Commy thanks for the platform.

Its obvious we need to make sex ed part of our lives. Delpraise me like those words. Kudos Commy! Thanks alot Precious for this naked piece…Its a sad thing girls are not taught right n adequately at home,school or church. Every growing girl who has come to this realisation should look for good books on this subject and read.

OMG very interesting piece,very educative as well. Thanks for sharing. Cant wait for Story From the Honeymoon Suite part 2. Am sure many people are going to learn from this. Wow, very interesting story. Thanks for the eye opener. We must honestly be open with our kids at the right times as they grow up. Most of what i learnt about sex was from the many novels i read esp mills n boons and some of my peers.

Luckily i learnt better when i started working esp on sex and reproductive and health matters. Of course i will definitely be open with my kids on this that is at the right times. As usual Commy i owe you kola. Very good read.

Thanks for the kola offer. Made romance love and romance foreign concepts.

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We bringing it home through this series. Stay tuned for part 2 next Sunday! What a great, awesome and wonderful idea to come up with a generous share of such experiences and the perks acquired from same. Thanks for this site and cant wait for Part 2.

Great piece of writing. I have always said that young boys and girls should be given every relevant information needed for a proper understanding of their sexualty. I remember telling a group of young Christians that sex is good but comes at a later stage in life when both partners can assume the responsibilities than come with it.

An elderly man cornered me and said I should rather tell them that sex is bad, so as to deter them from engaging in it.

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Unfortunately, those are the views that have been fuelling irresponsible and adventurous sexual encounters among youth. Conversely, I believe elder sisters with marriage experience have the responsibility to prepare the minds of their younger ones who are in the process of becoming wives. Education on this can make a great deal of difference. I really enjoyed this piece. I for one i believe there is much more marrital bliss for both patners getting married as virgins and a great deal of faithfulness would be felt by both patners.

Very important piece. It reminded me of a story I wrote from a circumcised woman a few years ago.

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